TINJAUAN HUKUM KELUARGA ISLAM TERHADAP FENOMENA FRIEND WITH BENEFIT DI KALANGAN REMAJA (Studi Pada Remaja Kota Bandar Lampung)

SHARA, SANDRA SARI (2025) TINJAUAN HUKUM KELUARGA ISLAM TERHADAP FENOMENA FRIEND WITH BENEFIT DI KALANGAN REMAJA (Studi Pada Remaja Kota Bandar Lampung). Diploma thesis, UIN RADEN INTAN LAMPUNG.

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Abstract

ABSTRAK Fenomena Friend With Benefit (FWB) merupakan hubungan nonkomitmen antara laki-laki dan perempuan yang melibatkan aspek emosional dan seksual tanpa ikatan pernikahan, yang semakin marak di kalangan remaja Kota Bandar Lampung akibat pengaruh globalisasi, media sosial, dan perubahan gaya hidup modern. Berdasarkan data BKKBN sekitar 33% remaja Indonesia terlibat dalam hubungan di luar nikah, termasuk friend with benefit, yang menimbulkan dampak negatif seperti gangguan psikologis, kehamilan di luar nikah, dan pergeseran nilai moral. Penelitian ini bertujuan menganalisis fenomena friend with benefit dari perspektif hukum keluarga Islam, mengidentifikasi faktor penyebab dan dampaknya, serta merumuskan solusi berbasis Islam. Menggunakan pendekatan deskriptif kualitatif melalui penelitian lapangan di Kota Bandar Lampung, data dikumpulkan melalui wawancara mendalam dengan delapan informan remaja (usia 18-24 tahun) yang dipilih menggunakan teknik purposive sampling. Hasil wawancara menunjukkan alasan terlibat friend with benefit seperti rasa penasaran, kebutuhan emosional, dan pengaruh lingkungan, dengan bentuk praktik bervariasi dari pertemuan diam-diam hingga hubungan fisik tanpa komitmen, yang sering menimbulkan penyesalan dan tekanan psikologis. Dari perspektif hukum keluarga Islam, friend with benefit dikategorikan sebagai zina atau pendekatan zina, yang dilarang dalam (Surah Al-Isra [17]:32) dan bertentangan dengan prinsip pernikahan sebagai sarana ketenangan dan kehormatan (Surah Ar-Rum [30]:21). Kesimpulan penelitian ini menegaskan bahwa friend with benefit menyimpang dari norma Islam dan memerlukan upaya melalui pendidikan agama, pengawasan keluarga, dan penyuluhan sosial untuk menjaga tatanan keluarga Muslim di era modern. ABSTRACT The Friend With Benefits (FWB) phenomenon is a non-committal relationship between men and women involving emotional and sexual aspects without marriage ties, which is increasingly common among teenagers in Bandar Lampung City due to the influence of globalization, social media and changes in modern lifestyles. Based on BKKBN data, around 33% of Indonesian teenagers are involved in extramarital relationships, including friends with benefits, which have negative impacts such as psychological disorders, pregnancies outside of marriage, and shifts in moral values. This research aims to analyze the friends with benefits phenomenon from the perspective of Islamic family law, identify the causes and impact factors, and formulate Islamic-based solutions. Using a qualitative descriptive approach through field research in Bandar Lampung City, data was collected through in-depth interviews with eight teenage informants (aged 18-24 years) who were selected using a purposive sampling technique. The interview results show the reasons for engaging in friends with benefits include curiosity, emotional needs, and environmental influences, with forms of practice varying from secret meetings to physical relationships without commitment, which often lead to regret and psychological stress. From the perspective of Islamic family law, friends with benefits is categorized as adultery or adultery, which is prohibited in (Surah Al-Isra [17]: 32) and is contrary to the principle of marriage as a means of peace and honor (Surah Ar-Rum [30]: 21). The conclusion of this research confirms that friends with benefits deviate from Islamic norms and require efforts through religious education, family supervision, and social counseling to maintain Muslim family order in the modern era.

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